The reality of a commitment is not predicated on the words or vows you commit yourself to, but rather the true essence of a commitment lives in the mindset of those who devote their heart to a divine union. The commitment of happiness and The commitment of Longevity are the core values of a healthy marriage.
The Commitment of Happiness is defined by your devotion to managing the positive emotion of your spouse. This commitment is very essential in the productivity of a marriage because it holds each partner accountable for maintaining the emotional health of each other. For example, when your spouse is in a place of anger don't allow them to hibernate in that place of negativity. Take the initiative to intervene in those moments and change the narrative of that atmosphere. Something I love to do every morning before I go to work is to leave my wife a note expressing how much she means to me. What this does is give her a sense of confidence in knowing she is loved. Also, it cultivates her heart with joy to start her day.
The Commitment of Longevity is the basic structure of a long healthy marriage. In all honesty, marriages will face challenges. But those challenges are constructive building blocks to strengthen the life expectancy of a marriage. It is vital to understand your role in a marriage is not to point out each other's weaknesses but rather utilize your strength in that area to build up their weakness.
Always leave room for your marriage to develop. Never permit complacency to inhibit itself in the area of growth. Because Love is not just an expression of emotion. It must be nourished daily in order for it to come to a perpetual state of maturity. You should consistently engage in each other in finding ways to evolve in your marriage.
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